http://www.mauritiusblogtracker.com Tracking Mauritian Blogs Sat, 18 Jan 2014 00:04:15 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 http://www.mauritiusblogtracker.com/2010/11/18/hidden-qualities.html http://www.mauritiusblogtracker.com/2010/11/18/hidden-qualities.html#comments Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:40:00 +0000 med889

we all have hidden qualities that we know nothing about it!!!
"Only appears when we face tough situations... "

 

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It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, but it's the little differences that make them interesting...

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When you believe  you want to love.

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Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new...

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Indeed I find that both Anger and Love have no limits at all thus we should be able to learn how to control both feelings to have a balanced life surrounded by relationships.

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"I notice people are more concerned with their possessions, insuring them, looking after their new cars, new toys, yet do nothing for the No 1 most important thing in their life - their body. Once we lose our health it's gone, not replaceable, possessions are!"

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                  If you cannot keep secret with you, don't expect that other will keep it.
"It will destroy you."

]]> http://www.mauritiusblogtracker.com/2009/09/14/secrets.html/feed 0 http://www.mauritiusblogtracker.com/2009/08/27/control.html http://www.mauritiusblogtracker.com/2009/08/27/control.html#comments Thu, 27 Aug 2009 07:32:00 +0000 med889 It seems to be a part of human nature for us to want to control situations in our lives and the lives of others. After all, we want to be helpful, to help others by making sure that situations work out well for all involved. And sometimes it seems to us that the only way that we can make things turn out okay is by taking over and controlling that situation ourselves.

I see parents do it with their kids in college: by calling their kid every day and "checking in on them," they make their presenceand their expectations--constantly clear. That's supposed to "motivate" the kid. Other parents try to give advice on every topic under the sun to their kids, fully expecting the children to follow that advice to the letter. This is called micromanaging, though, and it's usually more indicative of the parent's fear of failing the other person than it is of the kid's need for such constant input.

We simply fear being out of control. We fear watching things and events spiral out of control, harming us and those people we love. We fear facing a situation in which we have no control, and we fear situations reaching that point, so we try to "make sure" that nothing in our lives ever gets that far.

This fear, though, comes from a lack of confidence or faith in life and in God, whatever you perceive God to be. Life has been going on for many, many years without our input, and it's been going along fine. In fact, it seems clear that life has a harder time doing its thing the more we interfere with it. We're not willing to let the river flow as it will--we want to make sure that we control the amount of water that's flowing, the direction in which it flows, and when it stops and starts flowing. If we can do that, we can make sure that the river never will overflow its banks, and we can be sure that no one will be hurt by the river.

Trying to control life is a losing battle from the beginning. It's important that we step back and see whether our influence (not control) may be helpful or useful in a given situation, but if we constantly try to make sure that everything turns out fine, we will fail time and time again. Isn't it important to use our strength and power in situations in which we truly do have influence (in our jobs and relationships, for example, focused on our own actions) rather than in ways that are doomed to be wastes of that energy?

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